Becoming Unstoppable-Everything Will Happen In Due Time

#confidence #drstemspeaks #self-confidence #self-esteem May 25, 2016

Life is great. Don't let circumstances and society fool you into believing it's not.

~Terri Guillemets

How many times have you heard someone say (or have said these things yourself):

Nothing good ever happens to me
Why can’t I ever get a break
I always seem to be at the right place at the wrong time

Life isn’t fair

If only I would have had…
I could have done anything I wanted in life if I would have been given the chance
Maybe someday I’ll get what I deserve
There is one word to describe these thoughts. The word is EXCUSES.

Since the beginning of time people have been very good at feeling sorry for themselves; blaming everyone and everything around them for what happens to them or for not having what they feel they deserve. As far as I can tell from the history books and from what I’ve seen in my life and the lives of those around me, I feel confident in saying we’ve been going about it all wrong. This attitude of self-pity isn’t working.

You know what I’m talking about don’t you? Pity parties are attended by no one but the hostess. What’s more, the longer they last the more isolated you become. So why? Why do people continue to punish themselves like this? We have learned many valuable lessons from history, so why not this one?

Well guess what? The pity party bus has left town and you aren’t on it. It’s time for you to see life for what it is—a journey where every day is a step toward the future. It is time you understand that NO ONE has the power to make your choices for you and that each choice you make affects the rest of your life. That’s right—YOU are in control.

Part of the process of being in control is to realize that every decision you make is a launch pad to the next phase of your life. Things don’t just happen—there is always a starting point to take you from point A to points B, C and beyond.

You must also see your life as deliberate…purposeful…not an accident or a coincident. When you do, you have the open-mindedness to:

Take responsibility for your actions

Learn from your mistakes
Thwart the efforts of those who try to make you believe you are less than you are
Make decisions using both your heart and your mind
Look beyond the moment to consider the repercussions of what you are about to do; whether good, bad or indifferent

A Little About what I do and How I may be of assistance...

I am a Licensed Psychotherapist, Certified Business, and Life Coach. You might also see me as one your EAP Employee Assistance Trainers presenting Trainings and Webinars on Stress Management, Leadership Skills Team Management, Grief and more on Wellness and Self-care. 

I am also a Certified Passion Test Facilitator which my number one Passion helping others Find their Purpose and Passion in this one life. My Motto is YOLO (You Only Live Once) Make it Your Best Life. I have worked with men and women who were struggling with challenges like:  self-esteem, self-confidence, self-sabotage, depression, anxiety, relationship problems, needing clarity, starting an online business, changing jobs and more.

If you need more help in any area I have mentioned above, and you want to chat about it and see if we are a good fit to work more closely together, then

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Until next time 

This is DrStem 

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