Connect More & Communicate Better



Relationships thrive when there is understanding.  The Couples Assessment provides the insights to get there.

Committed couples gain a deeper understanding of dynamics, personality, stress and strength and growth areas. The Assessment makes it easier to set Goals with your couples counselor/cCoach to maximize your transformation and connection as a couple. 


With a solid research foundation and wide applicability, the couples assessment addresses the:

✅ Assessment of Friendship and Intimacy
✅ Commitment to the Relationship
✅ Romance in Your Relationship
✅ The Quality and Frequency of Your Sex Life
✅ Thoughts, Emotions as they relate to the relationship
✅ Personal and Relationship Goals 
✅ Past hurts and disagreements
✅ Financial Beliefs and differences
✅ Spirituality, Religion, Children, in-laws, Ethics
And More!!

Please Note

Price Covers Both Spouses.

How It Works

After Your Purchase we will set up two seperate Logins for each spouse and you each will receive an email with the your login.

The assessment will contain  scores comparing your answers and your insight of your current situation. This helps each spouse to clearly see where the problems are and begin to find soulutions to bridge the gap, communicate better and connect more.

Purchase Your assessment

The Assessment Checkup provides research-based insights into your relationship by identifying your specific strengths and challenges. 





Working with a Therapist, Coach will help provide you with clear,  explain and work on actionable steps to connecting more and making your relationship stronger.



Begin Your Assessment Today!! The Price is For Both
My name is Dr. Stem (Sithembile) Mahlatini.
I love empowering and encouraging others to feel better and pursue their best life, stress free.

I am a mental health professional, coach, and motivational speaker in private practice where I work with couples and conduct virtual women self care workshops.

Once you completeLet's Talk to Process Your Results. 

Schedule a couples appointment with me or continue to work with your current coach or counselor to process the results of your assessment. 

When you work with me our main goal is to: 

Help improve the relationship, communication by working with you  on the identified specific strengths and challenges. 

My Focus will be on Helping You:

Connect More 

Communicate Better 


Here is what others are said about The Couples Assessment

The assessment revealed a lot of things we have not talked about as we prepare to get married. We also realized why we get into arguments a lot. 

Ms. J. B. MA

We enjoyed working with you Dr Stem. You saved our marriage and having the assessment as our guide helped us a lot.

Sam Miami. FL

Connect and Communicate More in your relationship

Purchase the Couples Assessment. One Price for Both

Frequently Asked Questions

The assessment questions cover friendship, intimacy, emotions, conflict, values, and trust, as well as parenting, housework, finances, individual areas of concern, and more.

The actual time it takes to complete each assessment varies based on individual responses, the complexity of relationship dynamics, and the optional use of comment areas to provide additional information about the relationship. On average, you can expect to spend between 1-2 hours completing the questionnaire.

No this is an individual assessment that you will need to take alone.

Once you make your purchase you will receive an email from Drstem with links to take the assessment. If you do not receive the links please email her at: [email protected]


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